Talking To Your Teens About Divorce

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    If you have teenagers, you have likely already realized that you will need to talk to them about your plans for divorce. Your teen(s) may already realize that your relationship with your spouse is strained, and it is appropriate for you to discuss the future with your child(ren).

    Talking to teens about divorce presents both benefits and drawbacks.

    Unlike younger children, teens are more capable of discussing the dynamics of a contemplated divorce. Still, teens may feel the loss of a divorce in a profound way as they watch a family they have known for years – perhaps the only family unit they have ever had – change drastically.

    Reassuring your teen(s) that he or she is not responsible for the divorce, for your feelings, or for the feelings of the other parent may help stabilize the process. In addition, try to avoid utilizing your teen as an emotional sounding board to speak negatively of your spouse to your teen(s).

    Arizona allows children to participate in custody decisions if the child is old enough to understand the process and provide input, but such participation is typically avoided if at all possible. Some teens will want to tell the court which parent they would prefer to live with, while others will want nothing to do with the situation. Discuss all plans with your attorney before agreeing to any final decision.

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    At Mushkatel, Robbins & Becker, PLLC, our experienced Arizona family law attorneys will help you navigate the process with the resources you need to make a fresh start and provide the best possible future for yourself and your children. Contact us today to learn more.

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    About the Author

    Heather Baker-Mushkatel

    Heather Baker-Mushkatel graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison with a Bachelor of Arts degree in 2001, and obtained her Juris Doctorate from Brooklyn Law School in 2004. Heather is an Arizona native who left the state for school but returned home to practice law in 2004 with her primary area of focus being family law….